關懷細緻,聰穎處世 ——關穎 Thoughtfully Caring, Keen With Individuals

TEXT by Miyu Lin | TRANSLATION by Sherry Chen

在得天獨厚的環境中,活出很有自我主張的一道光,閃亮而不刺目,溫暖而堅定,是眾人目光焦點,也心懷無私大愛。這就是,關穎。

Born with privileges, Terri Kwan radiates her distinctiveness; she shines brightly yet not glaringly, exuding warmth and confidence, effortlessly drawing attention while harboring selfless compassion. This is Terri Kwan.

精準中藏細膩

像一陣風吹進攝影棚般,戴著墨鏡的關穎將她精準效率的步調也一起帶進了攝影團隊,原就處於Stand by狀態的齒輪瞬時井然有序地轉動了起來。
因為本期的封面設計大膽嘗試與潑墨潑彩大師柯淑玲老師的名作結合,中西合璧的創意設計在事前已經幾番溝通,當一切就緒,向來很有個人想法的關穎在鏡頭前給出一幕幕時尚無儔的肢體語言,所呈現的合拍氣場真是完美不作他想。

這就是時尚的關穎,很有主張,精確掌握大方向;也關注細節,大從服裝到配飾,小到髮絲弧度與眼線,都必須細膩到位。

Precision with Hidden Delicacy

Like a gust of wind blowing into the photography studio, Terri Kwan, adorned with sunshades, propelled the studio towards precision and efficiency. The teams in standby mode instantly began to run in an orderly manner.

Since the cover of this magazine issue integrates the masterpiece artwork of the renowned ink-splash master Lin Ko, the team has already gone through several rounds of communication on the creative consolidation of Eastern and Western elements. When everything was ready, Terri Kwan, who always had innovative ideas, presented scenes of unparalleled fashion poses in front of the camera. The harmonious atmosphere she presented was beyond perfection.

She is Terri Kwan in fashion—assertive, precisely grasping the overall direction, and attentive to details. From clothing to accessories, from a strand of hair to eyeliner, Terri Kwan believes everything should be thoughtfully considered.

系統而透明化

隨著孩子的成長與父母的年邁,身為三明治的中間世代,關穎深刻感受到必須上下得兼的家族責任感。
面對眼前進步、多元但又潛藏各種誘惑、危險的時代,關穎對三個孩子的照顧非常留心,尤其注重與孩子的相處時刻。細膩的她很清楚,雖然三個孩子年齡有些差距,平時除了要有共同的相處時間,個別的獨處更是重要。一對一單獨的相處時光,是她觀察孩子需求,與孩子拉近距離、交心的關鍵時刻。

「教養孩子不僅年齡有差,而且男女有別。我常常觀察他們的變化,有時候覺得要走在他們前面,先預知或做些準備;有時候又得回來陪在他們身邊,了解他們在煩惱什麼?或學到了什麼?當父母的,也是隨時都要調整、學習的啊。」關穎語重心長地說著。

日常照料孩子作息與父母需求,還有家族事業的參與,並想要保有與好友相約的自我時光,關穎對這一切游刃有餘的秘訣是,「與另一伴建立透明化的行事曆系統,彼此尊重,同時養成口徑一致的默契。」建立透明化的行事曆系統,可以讓彼此都信任、放心;尊重對方是讓感情能走得長久;口徑一致則是讓孩子有一致的教養規則可循,也不會傷害配偶間的感情。這就是生活的關穎,很有方法,但也不拘泥於成規;很有責任感,但也不忘記保有自己的空間,她正在實證,小孩子才做選擇,大人是全都要的。

Transparent Systematization 

As children grow and parents age, Terri Kwan, as the middle generation, feels the profound responsibilities towards her family.

Facing the current progressive, diverse, tempting, and dangerous days, Terri Kwan pays close attention to her three children, especially the moments she spent with them. Regardless of age differences, Terri Kwan understands the importance of individual quality time with each child. Individual quality time is crucial for them to connect and for her to understand the needs of her children.

“Childcare varies not only by age but also by gender. I often observe the children’s changes. Sometimes, I need to lead, anticipate, or prepare in advance. At other times, I need to be back to accompany them, to understand their worries, or to learn what they have learned. As parents, we must always adjust and learn,” Terri Kwan says with cogitation.

Terri Kwan’s secret to a well-balanced schedule of her children’s routines, her parents’ needs, her family business, and personal time with her friends is to take everything at ease. “Establishing a transparent calendar system with the partner, respecting each other, and developing a consistent tacit understanding,” she says. Establishing a transparent calendar system builds mutual trust and respect; maintaining consistency ensures the children have consistent parenting rules to follow. Consistency helps to avoid impairing spousal relationships.

She is Terri Kwan in everyday life—methodical yet not confined to norms, responsible yet not forgetting to preserve her own space. She is proving that only children make choices, but adults want everything.

從責任感出發

身為日盛健康基金會的執行董事,關穎身負家族集團對於健康議題的慈善事務推廣任務。她坦言,這份責任感讓她對於慈善捐助的對象與善款運用方式,越來越小心,每一次都會審慎評估,這些小心翼翼正是希望每一份善款都能真正幫助到最需要的對象,發揮到應有的價值。

而在健康議題之外,也是三個孩子母親的她深刻體認到「教育」是百年大計,對社會、對孩子都影響甚鉅。因此,接下來關穎也會帶領團隊為偏鄉教育、兒童福利等等教育相關的議題投入更多關注與力量。

這就是慈善的關穎,很有遠見,也謹慎給出每一份愛心;力求善盡職責,也願意擴大自己的力量,讓更多真正需要的人們成長茁壯。

Starting From a Sense of Responsibility

As the Executive Director of the Jih Sun Health Foundation, Terri Kwan takes responsibility for the charitable mission of the family conglomerate in promoting health-related issues. She admits that this sense of responsibility reminded her to be cautious with the donation recipients and the utilization of funds. Every decision should be evaluated and valued, aiming for precision to help those in need.

Beyond health issues, as a mother of three, she deeply recognizes that “education” is a long-term strategy that profoundly impacts both society and children. Therefore, Terri Kwan directs her team effort on education-related issues such as rural education and children’s welfare.

She is Terri Kwan in charity—forward-thinking, cautiously giving every bit of love, striving to fulfill her duties, and willing to expand her influence, genuinely helping those in need to grow and thrive.

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